“Whisper I am Sorry with Ziga” Episode Four 

Whisper am Sorry with Ziga


There’s no sin too big not to be forgiven, but if you think otherwise kindly share with us below what sin it is. Reconciliation brings peace of mind which in turn opens doors for success. There’s nothing a man who has peace cannot a achieve because the laws of the universe will be falling in place for his success

Incase if you’re a new reader on this platform, this is whisper am sorry with Ziga, a platform where saying sorry is made easy, you no longer have to say sorry all alone, you can now say it together with Ziga under scrutiny by our council of elders.


Last month December I had an encounter with a business mogul who told me his personal story on apology and the story goes thus “One faithful day I stepped out on my well-tailored dress, a lady drove pass me with speed and splashed dirty water on me, water enough for me to have a birth. Saying that I was mad was an understatement because I was furious, filled with anger and rage? The lady unlike what we normally see today slowed down while wining down her glass, as I approached her to vent on her, she calmly and politely said sorry to me with voice of sincerity and an apologetic eye. The anger subsided, and I entirely forgot that water was splashed on me, the venom of anger inside of me was diluted immediately. I even had to tell the lady not to worry that the incident happened because of bad road (which was true), had it been the lady didn’t say sorry to me in the manner in which she did, I wouldn’t have considered the fact that water was splashed on me because of bad road, I wouldn’t have even thought of it. The by standers who tried hulling insult on the lady were even calmed down by me, I told them to leave the innocent woman alone, that the incident happened due to bad road”. 

Now you seen for yourself what sorry is capable of doing.

The truth of the matter is that everybody will not have the same reaction to an action but our response to every action goes a long way in defining us, and also defining the outcome of the reactions because is action that beget reaction.

~ Prayer, desperate prayer seems so simple but it’s a step rarely taken by those in family conflict…. Erwin W. Lutzer

~ The search for Jesus is about reconciling loss and tragedy to God and us…. W. Scott

~ If there is to be reconciliation first there must be truth … timothy B. Tyson

~ Moments of kindness and reconciliation are worth having, even if the parting has to come sooner or later….. Alice Munro

~ The truth is unless you let go unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation. Unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward…Dr. Steve Maraboli.

~ I can choose to let it define me, confine me, refine me, outshine me or I can choose to move on and leave it behind me.

~ When thinking about life remember this, no amount of guilt can solve the past and no amount of anxiety can change the future.

~ The funny thing about life is that whether you like me or hate me both are in my favor, if you love me, I will always be in your heart…. If you hate mw I will always be in your mind… William Shakespeare.

~ Don’t forget that in the midst of all your pain and heartache, you are surrounded by beauty, the wonder of creation, art, your music and culture, the sounds of laughter and love, of whispered hopes and celebrations, of new life and transformation, of reconciliation and forgiveness….. W. Paul Young

~ Women must be the spokesmen of a new humanity arising out of the reconciliation of spirit and body…. Carol P. Christ.



Always remember that we are what we think about, if you’re evil it simply means that you always think of evil and you nurse evil thoughts. Create not enmity in your heart as it adds no value and has never ever been recorded to have added value. There is much more to whisper with Ziga than just reconciliation, kindly bookmark our page and invite your friends to share in this wealth of knowledge of hidden secrets of the universe, I will really appreciate your feedback on this humanity service so do remember to drop a comment below.


“Whisper Am Sorry with Ziga” Episode One 

Whisper Am Sorry with Ziga

Peace has not the product of a victory or a command, it has no finishing lime no final deadline, no fixed definition of achievement. Peace is a never-ending process, it is the work of many decisions…….unknown

There is really no need to die in silence when you can easily share your story with Ziga and you can say sorry through our platform for we understand how difficult it can be for someone like you to say sorry, is really not as easy as one may think, sometimes to open up and say sorry not knowing how the offended party might react or even what might happen to your ego after saying the sorry becomes a problem. You can easily type your apology message on our comment box below, the holy book urges us to forgive one another and the laws of the universe backs it up through karma, when you hurt someone you will be hurt by another but when there is reconciliation the pains of revenge shall be eliminated.

On the other hand it pays to forgive as Martin Luther the king Jr. once said that “forgiveness is not an occasional act but it is a permanent attitude”.

“Forgiveness is choosing to love, it is the first skill of self-giving love”… Mahandas K. Gandhi.

A weak person can never forgive because forgiveness is an attribute of the strong and I believe that you reading this post is strong, even if you’re not, you will like to be. So pick up your phone and take the bold step of making peace with yourself, your fellow and the universe. When you are truly sorry take that bold step and say it out, you will be free and when you are strong enough to forgive you will be free as well. Do you know that enmity is like a double edged sword because it eats up the offender and also eats up the offended?

On our twitter inbox Emeka from Uyo Nigeria sent a message which reads “I offended my mum by not loving her the way I should have, right now she is no more, can I still apologize to her and how possible is it? Will I be forgiven?”

Ziga’s response: having summon the courage to pour your heart Emeka I believe the universe have heard you and you will be forgiven, whenever you visit home, walk to your mother’s grave, pour out your heart the way you would have done if she was to appear before you, say all you have in your heart, you can say it in form of prayers to the creator of the universe. You can choose to plant a flower on her grave, then you go and hurt yourself no more.

Please if your mother is still alive, show her all the love that she needs. Kindly use the comment box below and give your own personal contribution and advice to Emeka.

~We cannot change the past but we can change our attitude towards the past, uproot guilt plant forgiveness, and tear out arrogance and seed humility, exchange love for hate thereby making the present comfortable and the future promising….unknown

~Forgiveness is the key to action and freedom

~Our anger and annoyance are more detrimental to us than the things themselves which anger or annoy us.

~Mattew 5:39- There is no revenge so complete as forgiveness.

~ Life appears to me too short to be spent in nursing animosity or registering wrongs…… Charlotte Bronte.

~People can be more forgiving than you can imagine but you have to forgive yourself, let go of what’s bitter and move on……Bill Cosby

~Peace is not possible without forgiveness….Naomi Drew.

~Anger makes you smaller, while forgiveness forces you to grow beyond what you were… Jimmy Carter.

This last quote simply means that anger retards someone while forgiveness paves way for you to grow beyond your imagination as you have no guilt holding you down. Keep to mind that forgiveness is a free gift accessible to all so be sure to possess this wonderful gift and stay away from enmity.