By Ziga

A good relationship is when two people accept each other’s past, support each other’s present, and love each other enough to encourage each other’s future. So don’t rush love, find a partner who encourages you to grow, who won’t ding to you, who will let you go out into the world, and trust that you will come back. This is what true love is all about and it’s always worth the wait.


A relationship means you come together to make each other better. It’s not all about you, and it’s not all about them. It’s all about us, it’s all about the relationship. Support them in their dream, vision just as much as you would expect them to support you. Make each other better, challenge each other to go beyond average. Pull out the greatness from within each other. Make sure they can find their biggest fan in you and you can find yours in them…….. Trent Shelton.
 Here are some warning actions below which clearly comes up when he is not meant for you. The points can also be applicable to female when she’s not into you but you ought to understand that 80% of the guys don’t value girls that chase after them. 
* He only contacts you at night, sweetheart you’re not valued 

  • He follows you not on social media

  • He just meet you and wants you to come over and chill or wants to come over to chill. 

  • Please come over my parents aren’t home. Run! 

  • He doesn’t let you touch his phone, if his phone is always faced down when dropped on the table. 

  • If he doesn’t save your number

  • If you’re only remembered when he is drunk

  • If he can go for days without talking to you, like two to three days…sweetheart you’re not on his level.  

  • When he always gives you non tangible excuse for avoiding communication with you.  

  • If he distance himself from you in public but gets close to you indoors…sweetheart he is a fuckboy

  • If he has so much thirsty girls around him. 

  • When issues come up they always put the blame on you even when they’re at fault,  they never accepts their mistakes and takes no responsibility for their actions. 

  • Watch how he treats his mother, if is not good don’t expect him to perform magic

  • If he has no plan for his future,  Do you really need a guy who cares not about his future and personality. 

  • He choose not to define the relationship,  even after weeks and days passby.

  • You’ve been in relationship for years and he doesn’t like title,  like seriously?  Who does?  Find someone who does.  

  • When he withdraws himself for no good reason, you can choose to ask what the problem is but always remember that a good guy is suppose to go after what he want not the other way round.  

  • If everyone tells you that he is a flirt, sweetheart everyone can’t be lying as every rumour has an atom of truth so ask yourself a sincere question. 

 Finally is worthy of note that when a guy want you he will tell you and also act it not just words alone, he will make it obvious through various means, be sure to identify the kind of want he want as he can equally want you just for sex alone and nothing more. The above list is not the final say and might not really be complete kindly add your own view or experience as I will learn a lot from it likewise others.