There is no need to die in silence just as said in the previous episode when you have a platform as this, where you can easily share your feelings with someone who cares.
We sometimes offend people unconsciously, yes! We do, when driving down the market area which happens to be congested, you can unconsciously knock down someone’s goods and at the same time you can be in a hurry to catch up with appointment. At the time of the incident all your attention was on the appointment but after then as humans being a spirit being, you will surely remember your unconscious inhuman act caused by congested road, at that point in time you sincerely need to say sorry and appease the person you’ve caused some pain but it will be very difficult to even locate or identify the person and that is exactly what this platform has been designed for, to say sorry to people you’re unable to meet face to face and also to people you will find it difficult to apologize to. If it will be more comfortable for you sharing your apology message anonymously kindly send it to our email: firstname.lastname@example.org or inbox any of our social media page on www.facebook.com/zigastimeout, www.twitter.com/zigastimeout, www.instagram.com/zigastimeout.
Forgiving yourself of what you did yourself wrong is very vital as some people blame themselves for a past mistake. Although it is normal but you can’t keep blaming yourself forever, remember you just have one life to live and it has no photocopy. The first step to forgiving yourself is to say it out….. I did so so and so, am really sorry for doing it I shouldn’t have done such but please forgive me, if there is any punishment for me I don’t mind serving the punishment. This forgiving one’s self can be so troubling when it has to do with matter of life and death of a loved one, a family member or a special person. But no matter what the problem might be, always remember that to err is human and to forgive is divine, so do keep an open heart in all that you do.
For every minute you remain angry, you give up sixty seconds of peace of mind. So when an offender says sorry I urge the offended to accept the sorry and move on because no matter how grievous our sins are our Divine Being do forgive us.
If we choose to go by an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth…. The whole world will go blind and toothless.
Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself, it is not something you do for someone else
We have someone or something to forgive and when we learn how, we become free to increase success in every area of our life. It is now getting clear on the importance of forgiveness to every human as it unlocks one’s success stories. After two friends reconcile of a quarrel the friendship seems to transcend to a new level better than it was before the quarrel, this is a natural thing.
Things you need to know about apology
~ An apology is a lovely perfume, it can transform the clumsiest moment into a gracious gift.
~ Never ruin an apology with an excuse.
~ Would “sorry” have made any difference? Does it ever? It’s just a word, one word against a thousand actions.
~ Never forget the most important words of any family “I love you, you’re beautiful, please forgive me”.
~ An apology is the super glue of life, it can repair just anything
~ Right actions in the future are the best apologies for bad actions in the past
Nothing wrong with apologizing, but saying I am sorry does nothing when you continue to make the same mistakes.